How to Overcome Your Confidence Problems Around Women When Dating

How to Overcome Your Confidence Problems Around Women

Confidence problems around woman can be a pitfall in your success to winning the affections of the woman you want. Overcoming this can take some time, everyone is different in dealing with this issue but here are some tips that you can use from today to better yourself.

How to Overcome Your Confidence Problems Around Women

  • It’s OK to embrace the fear: Some may be intimidated by a beautiful woman as a result they don't approach or they don't speak with her. What some men don't realise is that you might actually talk to women every day, either at work, at a cafe or a restaurant. Even though these women are paid to be nice to the customers, what I want you to do is actually take the time out to talk to them, genuinely ask them “how’s your day going?” and “Is it busy today?” If it’s a work colleague, ask genuine questions “how was your weekend?” If you start doing this every day, you're slowly conditioning yourself to be good at talking to strangers and getting good at being talkative.
  • Positive Visualisation: Yes it does sound a bit corny, but this is true. If you're visualizing yourself to be good at talking to women then this creates a positive reinforcement which will further make you more confident, more relaxed and everything will seem natural. 
  • Look your best: No big surprise here. Use your hard earned money to re-invest into yourself, by purchasing quality clothing, seek advice from the people who work at these stores as it’s in there best interest to make you look your best to make sure that you’re happy. A well fitted cotton shirt, new shoes, and a matching belt buckle can go along way. 
  • Having female friends: Many relationships have started from guys meeting a new woman through mutual friends. You are presented in the best possible way because your friends already hold you high regard. This will eliminate the problem of cold approaching as a way to meet women and as you have already mutual friends in common it's easier to build rapport with.
  • Take a dating course with The Modern Man: No big secret here, getting coached and having a mentor will fast track your success. A coach will help you discover the tools to be successful with women in months or even in weeks.